Friday, September 7, 2012

On Opening Presents Early

When I was younger I had a bit of a problem waiting for presents.

I have a vivid memory of sitting with my grandfather in his living room and the postal carrier rang the doorbell with a package for him. My grandfather was a generous supporter of a certain Yeshiva in Eretz Yisroel and as a "thank you" to him each year, they would send him a hand selected, especially fine esrog from there. My grandfather was always so happy and proud.
"Aren't you going to open the box right now Opa?", I asked as he sat back down peacefully in his chair with a smile playing on his lips.
"In a little while", he answered.
"But how can you wait??!", I asked incredulously, knowing how special this gift was for him.
He chuckled. "When you're my age, everything can wait."
I'm not sure all these years later whether he said more, or whether it was implied or even learned later on my own, but sometimes the wait and anticipation is part of the fun.

Of course I didn't learn this lesson immediately.... Ask Avram about the year (I'm guessing about 22 years ago...) when Avram bought me a blouse that I had admired in a store but was too frugal to buy for my birthday. I not only found my gift's hiding spot prior to my birthday, but TRIED IT ON, with the skirt I had imagined it going with! (I rationalized that in case I didn't like it, I should have my "game face" prepared...)

So we can agree that I've come a long way. I no longer even LOOK for my hidden presents, let alone open them. I truly have learned that anticipation is more than half the fun.

So you can forgive me this one minor indiscretion.
I bought myself a Yom Tov present. I've admired it for a long time (and therein lies my fulfilled anticipation) and when I was out Yom Tov shopping for my family, I decided that I deserved to buy this for myself as well.
It's a beautiful, yet simple, hand made glass challah board.
Tonight we have a full table for dinner.
I couldn't help myself.
It looks so pretty........


7 comments:

WAdsworth3 said...

I just need to sound off about Simchas Torah at KAJ. Despite the best laid plans of mice and men.

Ok. I am done.

YDL said...

Lets hear about it...the Simchas Torah post is probably my favorite...

Anonymous said...

this blog has petered out :(

WCY said...

Did someone march out of formation?

YDL said...

You see, here is part of the problem. If something is done in a Chassidish milieu (or even yeshivish), everybody oohs and ahs, no matter how baseless the “custom” might be. However, when a German community does something, it is ok to make fun…of course if anybody would question the “right to make fun”, it can just be blamed on the “proven fact” that “German Jews have no sense of humor.” The damage done by laitzanei hador is astronomical. Even KAJ, at times, feels the need to bow to such riffraff…

FrugalFrumFashion said...

That tablescape is pretty!

YDL said...

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