Time To Beat The Dead Horse.... (pun intended)

I know that the comments on my anonymous guest poster's review of the Annual Dinner are finally quieting down and I should probably not add any fuel to the fire, but this separate seating issue seems to be a hot button topic for many.

Citizen of Brooklyn North posted this (as yet unconfirmed) report that Puppa has "separate seating" in their CEMETERY. (here's where I wistfully return to my Our Town analogy ...)

If this is indeed true (and I am interested in feedback on this point as well...) I have two (or more) questions:

A) ummm....... why exactly?!?!?

B) Can women visit the kevorim of men at this cemetery and vice versa?