Something has got to be wrong with the system!I'd like to share with you a conversation that transpired a few days before Yom Tov on Facebook.
Somebody posted a question on her wall asking "What Are You Looking Forward To Most About Yom Tov?".
Innocuous, right? Perhaps even fun. I myself have posted previously regarding some of the things and some of the rituals I look forward to during the Yom Tov "season". What shocked me were some of the immediate responses this friend of mine received: - ...for when Yom Tov is over!
- ...when we take the chometz dishes back down!
- ...the END of Pesach.
If people are looking forward to the end of a Yom Tov before it even begins, no matter how strenuous the preparations are, something has gone horribly wrong.In their zeal to be so machmir in their cleaning prowess, these folks seem to have chosen to become meikil in their requirements for simchas Yom Tov.
Pesach prep need not and should not destroy a person.
Numerous missives have been written on the subject but I don't think they have yet seeped into the public consciousness and I'm not sure why, though I wonder if perhaps it has something to do with the current trend of "Keeping up with the Machmirs".
Perhaps if, as we clean, we focus on all the special moments and people that we are eagerly anticipating, this "imagery" will also help us through.
Speaking of special moments and special people:
Hearing one's grandchildren recite the Ma Nishtanah is definitely right up there in the top ten.
Having one's favorite son in law (Relax people! He's the only....) arrive with a Yom Tov present for his favorite mother in law (not much competition here either ;) ) - a Pesach Cookbook selected by himself personally - makes a lot of the effort worthwhile.
Familiar melodies.
Familiar memories.
{stepping off my soap box now}
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Heads up:
I'll have a Pesach treat for you shortly.
The Choir of Khal Adath Jeshurun put on a concert last night and footage is currently being processed for your viewing pleasure.